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title: "What Age Should You Start Shaving? Your First Shave, Start to Finish"
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# What Age Should You Start Shaving? Your First Shave, Start to Finish

There is no right age to start shaving. You start when there is enough hair on your face to bother you, and for most lads that happens somewhere in the early to mid teens. This guide is for you, not your parents: how to tell it is time, what you actually need, and how to get through your first shave without a face full of nicks.

## On this page

- [Key takeaways](#key-takeaways)
- [There is no age, there is a stage](#there-is-no-age-there-is-a-stage)
- [What you will need, and what you can ignore](#what-you-will-need-and-what-you-can-ignore)
- [Your first shave, start to finish](#your-first-shave-start-to-finish)
- [Peach fuzz, and why going against it is the mistake](#peach-fuzz-and-why-going-against-it-is-the-mistake)
- [Spots, nicks and the bits nobody warns you about](#spots-nicks-and-the-bits-nobody-warns-you-about)
- [How often, once you have started](#how-often-once-you-have-started)
- [Buying the first razor without wasting money](#buying-the-first-razor-without-wasting-money)
- [Questions people ask](#questions-people-ask)

## Key takeaways

- There is no set age. Most boys start shaving in their early to mid teens, but anywhere from about 12 to 17 is normal, because puberty runs on its own timetable.
- Start when the hair is dark or thick enough to notice, not while it is still soft, see-through fuzz.
- Shaving does not make hair grow back thicker, darker or faster. That is a myth.
- You need four things: a sharp razor, a shaving cream, warm water and a moisturiser. Everything else can wait.
- Shave in the direction the hair grows, use light pressure, and change the blade before it starts to tug.

## There is no age, there is a stage

Facial hair arrives during puberty, and puberty starts at different times for everyone. Some lads have a visible top-lip shadow at 12. Others see very little until 16 or 17. Both are completely normal, and being early or late says nothing about how much beard you will end up with. If growing one is the plan rather than shaving it off, start with [how to grow a beard](https://beardedcolonel.co.uk/blog/how-to-grow-a-beard/).

The easiest habit to get right from day one is a sharp blade. [The Bearded Colonel](https://beardedcolonel.co.uk) sends fresh five-blade refills through your letterbox on whatever schedule suits you, with the handle free in your first box.

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It usually starts as fine, pale fuzz on the upper lip, then spreads to the chin, the sides of the face and the neck. Over a few years it gets darker, coarser and thicker, and our guide to the [stages of beard growth](https://beardedcolonel.co.uk/blog/stages-of-beard-growth/) goes through each one. You are ready to shave when it has moved past the fuzz stage.

Signs it is time:

- You can see a moustache or chin hairs in photos or in the mirror from a normal distance.
- The hair feels rough or prickly when you run a finger over it, not soft.
- There are a few longer, darker hairs that stand out from the rest.
- It bothers you. That is a perfectly good reason on its own.

What is not a good reason is someone at school telling you to. If the hair is still soft and pale, shaving it achieves very little and gives your skin something to get irritated about. Wait a few months and look again.

If you are not sure, start small. Tidy just the top lip or the chin first, and leave the rest until it needs it.

## What you will need, and what you can ignore

A first shave kit is short. You need:

- **A sharp razor.** A good cartridge razor with several blades and a head that pivots is the easiest way to get a clean shave without cutting yourself. The pivot lets the blades follow the curve of your chin and jaw instead of digging in.
- **Shaving cream.** This lets the razor glide instead of scraping. If your skin is sensitive or you get spots, pick one made for sensitive skin, like our allergen-free [sensitive shaving cream](https://beardedcolonel.co.uk/shop/sensitive-shaving-cream/).
- **Warm water and a clean towel.**
- **A moisturiser or alcohol-free balm** for afterwards.

You can ignore, for now:

- Aftershave that stings. The alcohol in it dries out young skin and can bring on redness and spots. A plain moisturiser does the job better.
- Pre-shave oils, expensive brushes and a cupboard full of products. They are nice to have later, not needed now.
- Anything you have to borrow. Never share a razor, even with your dad or a brother. Blades carry bacteria and tiny amounts of blood, and sharing them is an easy way to pass on skin infections.

**Electric or manual?** An electric shaver is quick and hard to cut yourself with, which is why some lads start with one, especially with a lot of spots. It will not get as close as a blade, though, and plenty of people find a manual razor gives a smoother, longer-lasting result once they have the hang of it. There is more on that in our guide to [electric shavers vs wet shaving](https://beardedcolonel.co.uk/blog/electric-shaver-vs-wet-shave/).

## Your first shave, start to finish

Give yourself ten minutes and do not rush it. The first few times are about learning how the razor feels on your face.

1. **Wash your face with warm water.** The best time is straight after a shower, when the hair has had a few minutes in the steam and is soft. Never shave dry.
2. **Put on a thin layer of shaving cream** over the area you are shaving. Leave it for 30 seconds to a minute so it can soften the hair further.
3. **Hold the razor lightly.** Let the blades do the work. Pressing down is the number one cause of cuts and rash.
4. **Shave in the direction the hair grows.** Use short strokes. On most people’s faces that means downwards on the cheeks and top lip, but on the neck it often grows sideways or upwards, so feel which way it lies first.
5. **Stretch the skin on tricky bits.** Pull your top lip down over your teeth, or tilt your head back for the neck, so the skin is flat under the blade.
6. **Rinse the razor every few strokes** under the hot tap so it does not clog with hair and cream.
7. **Rinse your face with cool water** when you are done, then pat it dry with a towel. Do not rub.
8. **Put on your moisturiser.** It calms the skin and stops it drying out.

![Shaving downwards with the grain using light pressure and a short stroke](https://beardedcolonel.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2026/10/first-shave-with-the-grain.jpg)If you miss a patch, re-apply a bit of cream and go over it gently again. Do not go back and forth on the same spot on bare skin.

## Peach fuzz, and why going against it is the mistake

Going against the grain feels like it should give you a closer shave, and it does. It also lifts and cuts each hair below the surface of the skin, which is exactly how you get razor bumps and ingrown hairs, the red lumps that appear a day or two later.

On a first shave, with skin that has never been shaved before, stick to with the grain. A close-enough shave you can repeat every few days beats a perfect one that leaves you covered in bumps. Our guide on [why you shouldn’t shave against the grain](https://beardedcolonel.co.uk/blog/why-shouldnt-you-shave-against-the-grain/) goes into the detail.

And the big myth: shaving does not make hair grow back thicker or darker. A shaved hair has a blunt tip instead of a fine, tapered one, so the stubble feels coarser as it grows out, but the hair itself has not changed. How thick your beard gets is down to your genes and hormones, not the razor. There is more on that in [will shaving make hair thicker?](https://beardedcolonel.co.uk/blog/will-shaving-make-hair-thicker-debunking-the-myth/)

## Spots, nicks and the bits nobody warns you about

**You will probably nick yourself at some point.** Everyone does. Press a clean tissue or a cold, damp flannel on it for a minute or two and it will stop. Rinsing with cold water helps too.

**Do not shave over spots.** Go around big or sore spots rather than over them, because the blade can split them open, spread the bacteria and make them worse. If you have a lot of spots on your chin or jaw, an electric shaver on those areas can be gentler until they settle.

**Razor rash is red, stingy skin after shaving.** It usually comes from a blunt blade, too much pressure, or shaving without enough cream. Leave your face alone for a couple of days, use a fragrance-free moisturiser, and next time check those three things. Our guide to [getting rid of shaving rash](https://beardedcolonel.co.uk/blog/razor-bumps-causes-treatments-prevention/) has more.

**The neck is the hardest part.** The hair there often grows in different directions, and the skin is thinner. Go slowly, stretch the skin, and if it keeps getting irritated, shave it less often than your face.

If shaving keeps leaving your skin red or bumpy for weeks, or your spots get worse every time, it is worth talking to your GP or a pharmacist. There are simple fixes.

## How often, once you have started

Only as often as you need to. When you first start, that might be once or twice a week. Daily shaving on young skin often causes more irritation than it is worth, and your hair is not growing fast enough yet to need it.

As your beard fills in over the next few years you will probably shave more often. Our guide on [how often you should shave](https://beardedcolonel.co.uk/blog/how-often-should-you-shave/) covers how to judge it as your hair changes.

**Change the blade regularly.** A blunt blade drags, tugs and causes most of the rash and nicks above. As a rough guide, swap it after five to ten shaves, or sooner the moment it starts to pull instead of glide.

## Buying the first razor without wasting money

Disposable razors look cheap, but they are usually blunt after a couple of shaves and end up in the bin. A proper handle with replaceable blades costs less over time and shaves better.

We would say this, because it is our own range, but here is what we would put together for a first shave.

From the Colonel’s shelf

The first shave kit we would hand you

[![The Bearded Colonel Classic razor handle with a five-blade head](https://beardedcolonel.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2026/09/bearded-colonel-classic-razor-handle-768x773.png)  The razor Classic Your first box brings the handle free, then fresh five-blade refills come through your letterbox on the schedule you pick. Change it or cancel any time. £10, then £10 for 4 refills Start with the Classic](https://beardedcolonel.co.uk/join/) [![Sensitive shaving cream in a 75ml travel tin](https://beardedcolonel.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2026/10/cream-sensitive-768x545.webp)  The cream Sensitive Shaving Cream Made for sensitive skin and allergen-free, with a fresh fougère scent. A good match for a face that has never been shaved before. £8 for a 75ml tin See the cream](https://beardedcolonel.co.uk/shop/sensitive-shaving-cream/) [![Shaving brush with vegan synthetic bristles on a wooden base](https://beardedcolonel.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2018/01/vegan-synthetic-bristle-shaving-brush-768x768.png)  Worth adding The Shaving Brush Works the cream into a proper lather and lifts the hairs so the blade catches them. Vegan synthetic bristles on a hand-finished wooden base. £20, or £28 with the cream See the brush](https://beardedcolonel.co.uk/shop/shaving-brush/) [![The stainless steel VIP razor handle](https://beardedcolonel.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2019/12/stainless-steel-768x402.png)  As a present VIP Starter Set The stainless steel handle, a storage tin and 4 or 8 refills, bought outright with no subscription. More refills whenever he needs them. From £25 See the set](https://beardedcolonel.co.uk/shop/vip-starter-set/)

Every first Classic or VIP order comes with 30 days money back. Shave with it for a month, and if it is not for you, we refund it in full with nothing to send back.

The Classic is the place to start. Each blade has a roller on the leading edge, so it glides over the cream rather than pushing it out of the way, which matters when your skin has never been shaved before. And because [fresh blades come through your letterbox](https://beardedcolonel.co.uk/) on whatever schedule you pick, you never end up shaving with an old one because you forgot to buy more.

If someone in the house already has blades coming, a [Starter Handle](https://beardedcolonel.co.uk/shop/new-starter-handle/) is £5 and takes every Bearded Colonel refill. Just keep your own blades and do not share them.

## Questions people ask

### What age do boys start shaving?

Most start in their early to mid teens, but anywhere between about 12 and 17 is normal. It depends on when puberty starts for you, not on your age.

### Should I start with an electric razor or a manual one?

Either is fine. An electric shaver is easier to use without cutting yourself, which suits some first-timers. A manual razor gives a closer, longer-lasting shave once you have learned to use light pressure and go with the grain.

### Can I shave peach fuzz?

You can, and it will not do any harm, but there is often little point. Soft, pale fuzz is hard to see anyway, and shaving it gives your skin a chance to get irritated for not much result. Most lads wait until the hair is darker.

### Will shaving make my beard grow faster?

No. Shaving does not change how fast or how thick your hair grows. Stubble feels coarser because the tip is cut flat, not because the hair has changed.

### Should I shave my legs, chest or armpits too?

That is completely up to you. Plenty of lads shave their legs for sport or tidy their chest, and plenty never bother. If you do, the same rules apply as on your face: a sharp blade, plenty of cream, and go with the grain, because body skin gets irritated just as easily. Our guides on [shaving your legs](https://beardedcolonel.co.uk/blog/should-men-shave-their-legs/) and [shaving your chest](https://beardedcolonel.co.uk/blog/how-to-shave-chest-hair/) cover the differences. For armpits, a quick trim is often all you need.

### Can I use the same razor on my face and body?

The handle, yes. Keep a separate blade for your body, though, and swap it more often. Body hair is coarser and blunts a blade faster, and you do not want to carry bacteria from one area to your face.

### How often should I change my razor blade?

After about five to ten shaves, or as soon as it starts to tug. If shaving suddenly stings or leaves a rash, a blunt blade is the first thing to check.

### Do I need aftershave?

No. Aftershave with alcohol in it stings and dries your skin out. A simple fragrance-free moisturiser after you shave is all you need.